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Iza Syed – 25 years old, student/artist of NCA is getting married this April and she has a lot to share with everyone. As we all know being an introvert means less expressive, quiet and reserved. You cannot be able to tell someone the way you feel for them but one should take a moment and express his love and affection towards his close ones.
She said being an introvert I never share much but as I am getting married now, I want to express my feelings towards my family and friends. As I really couldn’t tell them how I felt being with them exactly. I tried to talk to them about so many things regarding all the regrets, the apologies, the guilt, all the times I missed them and wanted them to be with me but always ended up staying quiet even when I want to burst into tears in front of them, I did not!
So finally I decided to let this out and thought that writing letters to them is a good idea. I am just a few days away from the moment when I would become someone’s wife, my heart is filled with gratitude and my mind is filled with memories of 25 amazing years of my life that I spent with my family and friends and I don’t want to hide my feelings for them anymore.
I would love to write for my parents and want to tell them that childhood has been the most beautiful phase of my life. They gave me all the freedom and liberty to do whatever I wished to do and trusted me in each and every step I took. They let me free to play till I was tired, to read till I felt bored, to eat till I was full and to sleep till I came out of my dreams. They never compelled me to do anything. I want to thank them for letting me to do everything as I wished to do.
She said I want to write for my siblings so that I can tell them that they have been the one constant in my life, they are the people I go to for advice or a laugh or anything else I may need. As we’ve gotten older, our relationship has only gotten stronger. Of course, we’ve had our few disagreements, but that is typical with all, and it has never changed the way we feel about each other. I want to tell them that they influenced my life in so many ways – too many to count. I want to let them know that this new part of my life doesn’t change anything, I love them and I’ll always love them.
She said I am writing letters for my friends because I want them to know that as I sit back and reminisce on our journey of friendship and all we have been through together, I am reminded of just how important they all are to me, how much I love, respect and admire them. And how much I am going to miss all the mess we used to create in our lives together.
While getting emotional Iza said my life is going to take a big turn and till today my life, as a daughter, a sister, a friend, has been great and I have put all my sincere efforts to play my roles perfectly but due to my shy nature I couldn’t express my love, I couldn’t tell them that they mean the world to me but this idea of writing them letters might be a good chance to share before leaving and it will help me start a new journey with a clear and fresh mind. She said she will give those letters a day before her wedding.
Let’s just wish her a good luck and happy life ahead.