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According to Wikipedia harassment covers a wide range of behaviors of an offensive nature. There are several types of harassments and the most common one is online harassment which can also be called cyber-harassment or bullying. People become a victim of this horrible thing every now and then, it’ as if perverts and bullies are everywhere and just waiting for someone to impose their horrendous behavior on them.

I recently faced something which I did not expect at all, I posted an ad on olx of my black heels and I instantly got two messages for it. As I was using it for the first time I got excited and thought that I’m gonna sell my shoes right away but I was unaware of the situation. The buyer was named as “buyer-2fsm1” and kept on talking about my feet instead of heels. I tried to dodge the words and focused on the selling part but the person didn’t quit.

This person messaged me with “Nice heels” first then I replied him and asked him if he is interested and he said yes but with feet, I thought this person wanted a picture of heels with someone wearing them to get a better look of it so I suggested him to look at my other uploaded photo which had my feet in it. I told this person to take a look at that picture and then tell me if interested or not.

At this point I got a little uncomfortable as this person started being creepy I thought I’d stop replying to the messages but still this person kept on sending me  messages like “really beautiful” and so I thought I’d ask one more time if this person is interested in my heels or not so that they can quit fooling around and get to the point so I did. I asked if he’s  sure that he’s interested because I had more buyers and then again “Yes but with feet” I kind of wanted to reply him and tell him that it’s not really it’s real and not beautiful but beautiful. I stopped there and then blocked him.

At first, I didn’t want to share this experience with anyone but when I told my friends they encouraged me to take this to the internet so that people get schooled from it and realize that from their creepy behavior or “messing around” with people is not cool or anything.

In the end, I recommend that girls or boys whoever face any kind of harassment please never hide it or keep it to yourself, always take action against it maybe someday it will make a difference.