Love is a feeling that can happen to anybody, anyplace, at any instance. One moment you are perfectly fine and the very next moment your world has turned upside down. It could happen with your best friend or anyone else who is your partner in crime and your life safer both at the same time but that one day comes when that person walks into the chemistry class, and suddenly you’re the one person in the room who is feeling the chemistry. The exact same goes with crushes –  they can be phenomenal, intimidating, amusing and a heart-wrenching experience. You realize it all when you have your first ever crush with someone who has instantly given you butterflies in the stomach or someone who will always be in your mind until you die.

But the most devastating part about having a crush is that sometimes they start to irritate you so much that you wish they would just stop doing that. It must have happened to all of us, so let’s find out more about that:

1. You’re friend-zoned

Your crush being someone that you have already imagined to be spending your whole lives with considering you just a friend. You somehow know that never will the time come when your crush would start to take you seriously. Your inner self starts to believe that you will never be the one who would ever accidentally get a chance to spend time with your crush.

2. You’re invisible

They being someone who you always have your eyes on. No matter where there are, you just want a chance to be with them – just once.  But for them, you might be the person who just stands in the corner all day long or they might not even have noticed your existence and if they have, then definitely, you have been placed on the friend’s list on the 100^th rank.

3. They are committed

The heart-wrenching part is that when you get to know that they are dating someone. All that matters to you is who that person is no matter how amazing that person is, you will always hate that person for taking the love of your life away from you. You just want one moment to talk to that person and say that “they are yours no matter what happens”.

4. They are interested in someone

The unluckiest part of having a crush is them liking someone else. It’s like a love triangle with a bit of twist when you like them and they like someone else. You have your eyes on them and they have their eyes on someone else. All that you think of all day long is just how to get their attention. What can be the one thing that can make them think of you?

5. They are your friend

Them being someone that you have known for years and you both share an incredible bond, but your friendship has gotten in the way of your love. They have always been your partner in crime and someone who always save your life, so it gets awkward for them to like you in the same way.

6. You flirt with your friend

As they have never really noticed your existence, they start to flirt with a friend of yours. But you can’t do anything about this rather than just warning your friend not to ever talk to them.

7. They hardly interact with you

Before you thought of them as your crush, they used to be your best buddy who you used to talking with till the morning or midnight but not anymore. Because suddenly, this image of them in your mind stops you from talking to them normally. Your conversations portray this fake image of yours that you are trying to build in front of them.

8. They play with your heart

They are jerks to be very honest. You being someone who always is the nicest one, or the one who helps them whenever they need you – be it a shoulder to cry upon or doing research, you are the first person they contact but the only and the most irritating thing is that they talk to you when they need you.

9. They are popular

When you have a crush on someone who everyone apparently knows, you need to know that you will be having a very hard time. They will be talking to tons of people who are far better than you in every aspect of life. They will flirt with people, people will flirt with them etc. What you don’t know is that how to take this as it is coming your way at the same time.

10. They hate you

You might be someone who gets in the way of the person talking to their crush. Your existence annoys them for always being around them and making them approach their love the life a difficult task. They probably want you to vanish into the air so that their life can be easier.

Everyone who has a crush these days and might have dealt with a lot of these things. If this is relatable to you, then leave your comments and let us know!