In the beginning, it’s all butterflies, life seems amazing. You are off to composing text messages, worrying about what to wear on the first date and dates after that, you are always looking forward to talking with that person. Somehow that person makes your day all the better. Everything seems perfect. You feel like this person is the one, this person is your everything, from best friend to your psychologist. You want it to last forever. Then you get hitched. It’s like life could not be any better, but after some time with the same routine every day, lessons that spark and excitement that once existed. Marriage has its ups and downs, there is exhaustion and stress from work which enters in the personal life. If you want to keep the excitement in your marriage life and give your marriage a breath of fresh air and make your husband love you more every day, then read on…
This key element is very crucial. If there’s an inability to communicate effectively with either one of you, then it will definitely lead to misunderstanding, frustration, or even a disaster by being misinterpreted or poorly delivered. Always sit and sort things out, communication is the root of a marriage. Along with that, when you do try to be honest with each other then try to be understanding as well.
2. Be Confident
Have confidence in yourself, be secure about yourself and your body and take a stand when you think something is right or wrong. Being confident enough does not mean to be bossy and it does not mean that you will always have your way. But being confident in your own way is somehow very attractive to men. Believe in yourself.
3. Be Spontaneous
Bring that excitement to life again, be fun, surprise your husband, buy him something that he has always wanted, take him to a place that he likes. Be unpredictable. Be adventurous. It’s not just about your husband, if you enjoy it yourself as well then it’s more attractive.
4. Don’t Discourage or Criticize
Sometimes your partner needs a boost from his one an only, you. Sometimes your partner messes up and hopes you’ll let it go because nothing is done intentionally. When your partner complains, listen. Rather than give advice, offer sympathy. You can give advice if it’s asked for.
5. Compliment Him
Let him know when he does something you love. Let him know he’s doing it right. Appreciate him when he’s doing well at work or he’s under stress and needs a little pick-me-up. Let him know you love him even if he doesn’t say it enough or not at all. Maybe he won’t even admit he loves hearing that but he does. He appreciates you as well.
Obviously, this article can’t help at solving serious problems but this gives a pretty good insight on where you can start to fix things or just make them better. Every human is different and nothing is definite. You can analyze yourself about what’s missing and then fix it because you are enough and you can make this work! You got this!