Certainly, children are the blessing of Almighty Allah. When a woman becomes a mother, she accepts this honor with joy and gratitude. There are many people in the world today who are not able to have children, therefore when God blesses a family with a child, it is a moment of celebration and happiness.
Unfortunately, our society has made this blessed moment awkward for new mothers. People usually forget that a child is not made in factories, it is by Allah’s virtue that whether a child has blue eyes or black hair, it all depends on Allah’s blessing. It is not a new thing to bully the newborns, as this has emerged in our society very deeply! Yes, we all do that intentionally or unintentionally.
So, here’s another mother with the same concern that our society has about newborns, infants, and toddlers! Momal Asif is a blogger who has learned her lesson when people all the way came an judged her toddler or said something which is totally out of logic! Since people in our society judge everyone with their own sets of binoculars and expects everyone to fit in, here’s this mother who shushed everyone in the most savage way!
Rightest way to tackle the people!
Not only women but people also pass comments on kids as well. Lol 😅 let me tell you what I get to hear. 1. You should get your son bald so that he can grow thicker hair. 🤦🏼♀️ 2. You should give him formula milk so that he can gain weight. 😅 I’m sorry if he is breastfeeding I’m more than happy. 💁🏼♀️ Boo Boo Guys please research and find out if getting the head shaved off has anything to do with hair growth. 🙈 #HowDoIReply: Yes you are right I will definitely do it as soon as possible. OR Exactly, that’s what I’m planning to do. 😅 #Result: Why do I waste my energy in making them understand. OR what’s good in creating an argument with them? Trust me guys if you start being calm to such things your life will be on another level. 💖 #MyMantra: No matter what I get to hear I never lose my temper nor I argue with people also I never disrespect them. 😌 Phew!! Wanted to make you feel better. P.S Thank You Fajar for the lovely dress. 💐
Based on this mum’s experience, we, too, jotted down a few things that new mums often get to hear about their babies.
1. Iske Baal Nae Arhay? Ganja Kerwao 2 se 3 Martaba
I mean seriously? Shaving the head has NOTHING to do with the hair growth at all.
2. Bohat Weak Hai, Formula Milk Nae Deti Ho?
Oh really? And what should I do if my baby is already healthy? Bhooka Maar Doon?
3. Tumne Pregnancy Me Coconut Nae Khaya Tha? Itna Kaala Beta Hai Tumhara
Kiaaaa? matlab kuch bhi?
4. Iska Sar Proper Se Banana. Poora Gol Hona Chahiye.
Abhi draw kar lety hain pencil se, ruko!
5. Aankhen Stretch Kiya Kero Thori Lambi Hojaengi
Yeh b koi exercise hai?
6. Iski Naak Kitni Choti Si Hai Na?
Sans toh arha hai na? He’s breathing fine, AUNTY jee!
7. Sarson Ke Oil Se Malish Kero, Sehat Banti Hai Us Se
Yeah right, we’ll just try bathing the kids in sarson ka oil! Better?
Yeah, so have you ladies ever experienced any such thing?! Seen an innocent kid getting beauty tips like the above? Then share with us! Let us know in the comments below.