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Why is this so unbearably hard? Because we humans are so selfish. We will go to great lengths not to be the “bad guy”, maybe to an extent that we’ll fritter away the life of another. Yes, that is what we do to people with our love. Damaging a person which leaves them with serious trust issues and fear of deception.

Love is the profound wish to be with your beloved. And, lovers invest whatever they can do to fulfill this wish. Daydreaming, imagining, dizzying thoughts you can say the signs of love makes the brain look very different – it is unique and well-defined. Not only does the heart skips a beat, but the brain skips a general thought.

Being in love, you tend to focus on the positive qualities which lead to emotional instability and you bounce between sleeplessness, loss of appetite and a racing heart. You feel the other person’s pain as your own and would sacrifice anything to let them be in peace.

Love is unforgiving, unfair and destructive. It is the worst addiction. Taste it and you crave for more. It may be eating your happiness but you know the next person is the one. It just goes on until you give up.

Let’s suppose it is simply a bunch of chemicals that bounce in your brain and makes you feel happy around that one person. You experience the same reaction as a kid, the chemicals hook up and stay to keep the parents together to grow a kid. The point is, life exists to create more life and love is the tool that allows this to happen.

Don’t keep them up at night tossing and turning wondering where you are? The confused mornings after a great night, wondering if things are ever going to progress between you; this makes their thoughts uncontrollable.

Love – It lasts forever.