Men in Pakistan are patriotic.

They are loyal.

However, they are also tharki.

Before you start arguing with me, please take a look at this:

And this.

And this as well.

Why do men in Pakistan invade other people’s privacy like this? If you’re not one of them, congratulations-you have a basic sense of decency. But it’s not anything to be proud of. Not bothering girls with random, sexually explicit and derogatory messages is supposed to be common sense.

Guys, please take note of this- just because a girl has a Facebook account doesn’t mean she wants to talk to you, especially if all you want is sex. No matter how much you try to hide it, your disgusting and perverted intentions are obvious from your first message.

Some men come up with the worst pretenses in the world to message a girl. Massage service? Really?

And some are so shameless that it’s not just disgusting-it’s terrifying.

After reading this, I’m sure some men are narrow-minded enough to think that if girls didn’t want to receive messages, they should not have made Facebook accounts.

That is the stupidest thing I have ever heard. It’s like saying “don’t live in a house if you don’t want other people to break in”. The house belongs to you and people who have no business with you should stay away from it. Just like that, the account belongs to that girl and people who have no business with her should stay away.

These actions amount to harassment. A girl’s body and sexuality are her own. You cannot ask her to share any part of herself with you because you have no right to do so. Let her live her life in peace. Women are human beings, not objects. Give them respect for it.