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So, the schools have been started a month ago and there are alarming bells that can be heard by the mothers of toddlers. I have come across some mothers who are very worried about their kids related to their handwriting which ultimately has shocked me!

I have seen some mothers who have shared handwriting pictures of their 3 years old kid who just have joined the school and they were seeking advice whether the writing seems ok or not? MATLAB SERIOUSLY??? Even some are moreover conscious mothers have asked whether they should go for a consultant for their child as they do not feel the handwriting is up to the mark.

This made me think that what would happen to a child if the consultant or any other person suggests that handwriting isn’t up to the mark, what are they going to do??? Will they pressurize the poor soul to improve his handwriting? Or find some other alternatives?

With the help of this article, I just want to share that “Khudara, please try to understand every kid is different, every kid is unique – It is not necessary, if the kid is weak in handwriting then he will remain weak in other aspects also! I have seen so many kids whose writings were not good but they were very good at Maths, some were good in Arts.

In short, please give your child some space to grow – You must bring improvement but neither by taking pressure nor pressurizing your poor child. I would love to share a movie dialogue from TAARE ZAMEEN PER here which was, “Hum Bache Paida Nahi Karte Balke Ghorey Paida Karte Hain Ta Ke Wo Race Main Participate Kar Skein Jeetne Ke Liye Aur Dusron Ko Haraane Ke Liye”. I request all the mothers to please stop thinking too much – children are very intelligent, give them wings to fly – give them water to grow – don’t cage them.

P.S: Through this article, I don’t want to hurt anybody’s sentiments – please consider it in a positive way. Akhir kar aulaad tou apki hai – apse zyada kaun behtar smjhega unko!