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To all the brides out there,
I know it’s not easy to leave a family behind for one guy! Or in our culture for an entirely new family. I know how you have been dreaming about this day of your life you call it the biggest day, the day you signed yourself, the day you think you are finally complete, the day of your new beginning and what not.
Regardless of how nervous you feel about this change, your inner soul is pretty thrilled about it. Don’t worry, I am not here to scare you and I’m not going to say it’s not true cause it is. Your life is changing and it is a new beginning. it is a bed of roses so be ready to feel fresh with the aroma of rose and a sudden pinch of thorn.
This is the day when you will stand out from the audience and people will be softened by the glow on your face but remember there is one thing you are gonna be as soon as you sign yourself you are going to be a wife, a partner, a companion, a best friend and a whole new world to one that person and when you are going to make him your entire universe you need to remind yourself that this whole universe is dependent on you!
Being a wife is not going to be easy but it’s going to be beautiful. Being a wife, I can tell how my life has changed, how I am more considerate even though I don’t call my self a good wife. But I try every day to give this relationship an importance it deserves. When I vowed, I knew there’s a lot of compromise coming in my way and I am not the kind of a person who is ready for it. I don’t believe in compromises but looking at my husband made me realize I believe in love and how his happiness means the world to me.
The day you become a wife, make sure you know it’s only you and your husband. You don’t need anyone else telling you what to do for your relationship. Being a girl, I know it’s not easy not cry our hearts out in front of our friends but this is the day you are making a best friend for life. Make him your friend and be his buddy until he doesn’t accept you as his one. Being a bride is easy but being a wife is not! Choose your partner wisely don’t marry because you wanna be a bride, marry when you are ready to be a wife.
Lots of love.
