A Few Things You Should Talk About Before Getting Hitched In An “Arranged Marriage”


Like any normal Pakistani household, almost every girl/guy has to go through such a process where they are set up on a blind date by either their parents or some relative. You wish not to go to such awkward meetings, but still, you do because your parents say “Dekhny mein kia hai”

Many people who do not consider even thinking about getting married anytime soon, end up convinced in such “arranged marriage” meetings that they like the person whom they have just met. Crazy as it may seem, but yes, mostly our parents are the ones who were married in an arranged setting. So, if you are a person who is put into a situation and thinking to give it a shot and don’t know what to ask the person, it’s better to analyze. Here are a few things you can talk about in the first meeting without sounding too creepy. We promise you!

1. Food


Food’s something that could connect two people, instantly.  Just as some people are very experimental and others aren’t. The latter ones are the kind who would specifically know what to order when they go to a particular restaurant! But the experimental ones would eat anything and ask the waiter to bring the best dish they offer in the house. So, when choosing a partner, you should know what kind of a foodie you are dealing with!

2. Childhood


Childhood discussions are the one which brings good humor to the conversation plus, there’s a good chance that reminiscing childhood memories would connect you two! All the stupid and creepy things that you both did and some awkward and some proud – That’ll make you both imagine each other in a different setting! Also, you will both now empathize with each other, or maybe not! 😀

3. Travel


Travelling makes you sane! It is what people say. Also, it makes you a good storyteller. So, if all the above-mentioned tips go wrong, you can always save your ass by telling some good travel stories and not sound boring!

4. Movies and Music


A person’s choice and acumen could be judged by their choice of movies! And if you’ve found that person, then booom! Voila. Also, music is something that connects people! Yeah, yeah, we hear that you can’t agree more 😀

5. Work Life


Work is what tells you about a person’s passion and what drives them! What makes a person get out of their bed and go to work? What are their motivations, aims, aspirations? Where do they want to see themselves? What is their standard of living a quality life?

Well, all of these things are enough for two people to know them a bit more so they can get ready for the next meeting!

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