When two people get married, they have a somehow fragile relationship. A relationship, which otherwise could have been affected by other people’s interference; ONLY if the couple let’s them! There might be many people who would say that there are certain people who they can’t push away from their marital problems. Like parents, since parents have a huge age gap, it is certain that they will not understand the problems and things of their kids who are 20-30 years apart.

But it is said by scholars that when either of the person; your wife or your mother is wrong, you have a right to tell them that they are wrong in certain matters.

Likewise, when people get married others congratulate the guy about how he’s not going to have good food now. The wife is not an unpaid maid if she likes to cook for you and is passionate about it than you are lucky. But if she doesn’t then you shouldn’t tell her that she’s useless. Neither anyone outside your home! Same goes for women when a man goes out and works all day, so the woman should appreciate his efforts.

It is one of the sins that men and women do; how they do not appreciate their spouse’s efforts and tend to forget it 

When you want to know everything about your spouse the knot will break! People often say that they want to know everything about their spouse, but they shouldn’t. They aren’t God. People make big mistakes, everyone faults!

The sins sometimes are between them and Allah!

And if your spouse faults and falls back, it is your duty to stand with your partner and bring them back to their feet. Do not tell people their faults and mistakes, it will make the relationship weaker. Let them heal from their mistake and try to turn them to Allah.