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A fat or a chubby girl who is living in Pakistan hears numerous compliments and suggestions in a day regarding her health, as we are living in a society jahan log apnay kaam say kaam nahi rakh skte hain and dusray par comment karna tu farz smjhty hain. In other countries, a person with a good health is considered as a happy person but in Pakistan, it seems like the worst syndrome; especially for females.
A fat or chubby girl hears the following free k mashwaray at least once, in her life:
1. Oh, sweety you look so cute in this chubby form
By this sweet compliment, they literally mean that you are getting fat and you need to control, Moti.
2. Junk food mat khaya Karo!
Suggestion tu aisa daty hai jisay inkay baap kay paisao say khaati ho. Dear girls, don’t pay shit to them. Okay?
3. Aray Wah, Mashallah, bari achi sehat horahi hai!
That means “koi kaam sham kia karo yaar apna wazan dekho”.
4. Do hit the gym baby
In our country, people love to give free suggestions especially when it comes to the health of a girl. So, take a chill pill girls!
5. Beta, you have gotten quite healthy
A compliment from that burger aunty who’s life motto is just to look super skinny and sexy. It is simply a burger compliment which also means ke bht moti hogayi ho.
6. Shadi wadi nahi karni tumnay?
Each and every Pakistani girl hears this question not once but many times in her life from these aunties, whether she’s fat or a skinny. So, dear girls, whether you are fat or skinny, a simple answer to this question is that, “Aunty app meri fiqr na karay meray maa baap hain, Allah ka shukar”. This will definitely make their mouths shut.
People will never stop commenting on you whether behind your back or on your face. So, my dear girls stop paying attention to them and start loving yourself instead of feeling ashamed of your body type.
