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Many people wonder, what happens to the love after you get married? This is the eminent question and the content of the book “The 5 Love Languages” revolves around this question. There are five ways that people speak and understand emotional love. We named it love languages, and then these love languages have few dialects. Everyone has their own primary love language among those five. After reading this book, you will get a whole new level of understanding. People think that others also have the same love language what they have; this is the biggest misconception and this book highlights this misconception.

Gary Chapman, an American author, conducts marriage counseling and lead marriage, family, and relationships enrichment seminars. “The 5 Love Languages” is his all-time most recommended book which has sold over 10 million copies, translated into 49 different languages and rated among top 100 sellers on Amazon.

The quality of our life is determined by the quality of our relationships. The stronger the relationship is the better the life will be. If we don’t understand the language others are speaking we have a hard time to communicate. Similarly, if we don’t understand our spouse’s emotional love language, we have a hard time building a long-lasting relationship.

The first step is to identify and learn to speak your spouse’s primary love language. This is the key to a long-lasting, loving marriage. Some husbands try to fulfill every wish of their wife, but they still find her completely unhappy. The reason behind this is they fail to understand her love language or they may never have thought it that way. We can save our relationship if we can decode other person’s love language. Material things can’t fulfill ones desire for emotional love. For some people, compliments mean a lot and for some people, some encouraging words can make her heart beat faster.

Sometimes, we come across people who have lots of problems and complain about so many things. Actually, they don’t ask you for the solution but they want you to just listen to them; they only want your attention and sympathy. These kinds of people have the love language “quality time”. Among those five which has the dialect is “quality conversation”. Similarly, for some people, forgetting birthdays or anniversary is a disaster and for some people, it’s just an ordinary date.

The growing divorce rate in Pakistan is indicating that thousands of couples are living their life with empty emotional love tank or speaking the wrong love language. This is the kind of book every married couple should read and it should be given as a present to every couple while they are getting married. It will create a great impact on their marital life.